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There vs Their vs They're: Never Confuse Them Again

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there, their, they're

Common Misspellings:

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A quick mnemonic to help you remember:

Spelling mnemonic for there their they're: Look over there! It's their castle. They're royalty - memory trick
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This is one of the most searched spelling questions on Google. With three identical-sounding words and three different meanings, even confident writers hesitate. The confusion is natural - but completely solvable with the right visual trick.

The Three Variants

WordMeaningMemory TrickExample
THERELocation/placeHas HERE in it"Put it over there"
THEIRPossession/ownershipHas HEIR in it (heirs own things)"It's their castle"
THEY'REContraction of "they are"THEY + ARE = THEY'RE"They're leaving now"

Why This Mistake Happens

Identical pronunciation: All three sound exactly the same (/ðɛər/). Your ear can't tell them apart, so your brain guesses based on context. When you're writing quickly, it's easy to grab the wrong one.

Three different jobs: One shows location (there), one shows ownership (their), one replaces two words (they're). Three meanings, one sound equals confusion guaranteed.

Autocorrect doesn't help: All three are real words, so spellcheck won't catch the error. You can write "Their going over they're to get there book" and spellcheck stays silent - even though all three uses are wrong.

Word Origin

THERE: From Old English "þǣr" (at that place), which has always meant location. The word traveled from Old English through Middle English to modern English, keeping its meaning intact across a thousand years.

THEIR: From Old Norse "þeirra" (of them), introduced by Viking settlers in medieval England. It replaced the Old English possessive forms and became the standard way to show ownership for "they."

THEY'RE: A modern contraction (17th century) combining "they" and "are." Contractions became popular in informal writing as English evolved, creating a shortcut for common two-word phrases.

All three converged to the same pronunciation (/ðɛər/) over centuries, but kept their different spellings and meanings - creating the modern confusion.

Etymology Path:

Old English/Old Norse þǣr / þeirra → Middle English there / their / thei are → Modern English there / their / they're

The Mnemonic

"Look over tHERE! It's tHEIR castle. THEY'RE royalty."

Why it works:

  • THERE = Location: "Look over tHERE" - the word HERE is literally inside THERE. Visual: Pointing to a castle in the distance. You're indicating a place.
  • THEIR = Possession: "It's tHEIR castle" - the word HEIR (someone who inherits/owns) is inside THEIR. Visual: Royal ownership, heirs own castles.
  • THEY'RE = Contraction: "THEY'RE royalty" - means "THEY ARE royalty." Visual: The royal family (they) are (are) wealthy and powerful.

How to use it:

When you're writing and pause at there/their/they're, picture the royal castle scene. Are you pointing to a location? (tHERE - contains HERE). Talking about ownership? (tHEIR - contains HEIR). Or replacing "they are"? (THEY'RE = THEY ARE). The castle scene gives you all three at once: a place to point to, royal ownership, and the royal family themselves.

Examples in Context

School: "Put your backpacks over there. They're taking their test today."

Home: "Is there any milk left? They're using it for their breakfast."

Work: "There will be a meeting at 3pm. They're bringing their reports."

Casual: "Let's go over there. I heard they're having a sale on their winter coats."

Story (Castle Scene): "Look over there! It's their castle. They're royalty."

Common Mistakes to Avoid

"Put it over their""Put it over there" (location = HERE is in THERE)

"There coming soon""They're coming soon" (THEY ARE coming = THEY'RE)

"I want they're advice""I want their advice" (possession = HEIR owns advice)

Quick tip: Replace the word with THEY ARE. If it makes sense, use THEY'RE. If not, it's THERE or THEIR. Then use the castle mnemonic to pick between location (HERE is in THERE) and possession (HEIR is in THEIR).

Quick Reference

THERE (location) - has HERE in it → "Put it there"
THEIR (possession) - has HEIR in it → "Their castle"
THEY'RE (they are) - contraction → "They're royalty"
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Mnemonic: Look over tHERE! It's tHEIR castle. THEY'RE royalty.
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